Books about Embryo Adoption

Books for Parents-to-Be

Whether you are first learning about embryo adoption and want to read more, or you’ve got an embryo adopted child of your own, we hope these books will encourage and inspire.


Frozen, But Not Forgotten

By Nate Birt
I have read the few books that exist about embryo adoption. This book makes a unique contribution: helping people really envision themselves as adoptive parents. Birt helps prospective adoptive parents become psychologically healthy to prepare for adoption, with profound advice on topics such as how to explain your story to other people in front of your children. Anyone considering embryo adoption… should read this book.
—Daniel Nehrbass, Ph.D., President of Nightlight Christian Adoptions


chosenforgreatnessChosen for Greatness: How Adoption Changes the World

By Paul J. Batura
Chosen for Greatness profiles 25 well-known adoptees who were given the opportunity to change history for the better when they were taken in by their new families. While the book focuses on traditional adoption, it includes a wonderful chapter on embryo adoption.




Three Makes Baby: How to parent your donor-conceived child

By Jana M. Rupnow, LPC
A fertility counselor addresses your urgent questions: Why should we tell our child we’re not genetically related? How do we tell our child about donor conception? And when is the best time? Should we keep the donor a secret? You can learn to overcome fears that make you want to keep a secret—yet maintain your family’s privacy.



ofsoulsandsnowflakesOf Souls and Snowflakes

By Tiffany Childs
“A thoughtful, personal, and inspirational account of a family’s desire for children that dramatically illuminates the intersection of the Gospel with the modern world.”
—John D. Koch, Jr.; Rector, St. Francis in the Fields, Louisville, KY




Souls on Ice

By Maria Lancaster
Unique and inspiring. Souls on Ice invites you to share some of the most intimate moments in the lives of couples who experienced the miracle of birth through embryo adoption. Like the embryos themselves, each story is unique and reflects God’s active role in our lives today.
—Ronald L. Stoddart, President Emeritus, Nightlight Christian Adoptions


Books for Kids

Story books are a wonderful way to celebrate and help children understand the unique way in which they came into your family.


Your Child’s Lifebook

By You!
Technically, this isn’t a book yet, but this webinar has the potential to help you tell your adopted child the unique story about how they came to you. We will give you our best tips on how to document that story in a Lifebook. We will have tips for both busy families, and parents who prefer to use their artistic abilities. Let us help you make your child’s story a memorable one, that they can hold on to for the rest of their life!


Snowflake Baby

By Chris & Kari Stewart
Written by a couple who gave birth to their Snowflake Baby in 2018. A story of hopes dashed and hopes fulfilled, told in allegory and poetry. This charming story follows couples through their infertility journeys onto welcoming their babies into the world.


Made with Love

By Whitney Williams
Explaining embryo donation and adoption to young children can be hard. But ‘Made With Love’ makes it easy by using an allegory every child can understand: baking cookies! A visual feast with the sweetest-ever rhyming story line, donating and adopting families alike will eat up this heartwarming tale.


You Were Made For Me

By Sheri Sturniolo
Growing a family isn’t always easy and sometimes mommies and daddies need a little help. See how the generosity and love of others can grow into the most wonderful gift. You Were Made For Me is a look into the unique ways that some families are made and the journey of love that brings them together.


Hope and Will Have a BabyHopeandWill

By Iréné Celcer
Follow an inquisitive little boy who learns of his parents’ quest to have children, and the success they ultimately achieve in creating a family. Told in a language a child can understand, these books recount the tale of how mom and dad met, fell in love, and ultimately built a family.


A Gift for Little Treeagiftforlittletree

By Colleen Marquez
A parable about adoption, this charming story tells of an apple tree who is unable to bear fruit—no matter how hard she tries—until a wise farmer finds a way. He grafts a bud onto Little Tree’s limb, and in time she becomes the most colorful tree in the orchard.



Before You Were Born: Our Wish for a Babybeforeyouwere-born

By Janice Grimes
A story book written in age-appropriate, loving language and tells the story of how a child came to be via embryo donation or embryo adoption. The book is written for 3-5 year olds. Using bears as characters, the illustrations depict the typical day in the life of a child interacting with their parent.


What Makes a Baby?WhatMakesaBaby

By Cory Silverberg
“A Truly Inclusive Way to Answer the Question ‘Where Do Babies Come From?’: The new book What Makes a Baby offers an origin story for all children, no matter what their families look like.” —The Atlantic


Training Wheels: How Did I Get Here?trainingwheels

By Chris Barrett and Sally Hunter
The story is about five year old Miles and the new bike he gets for his birthday from his special friend, Mike in California. Miles’ parents explain that Mike’s mom and dad generously donated their remaining embryos and he was born as a result of their loving gift.



Treasure Babies: How two under-the-sea families came to be

By Whitney Williams
“Treasure Babies: How two under-the-sea families came to be” was written to help children understand the basic concepts of infertility, conception through IVF/fertility treatments, and the beauty that is embryo donation/adoption. Great for families who have donated their embryos and for recipient families!


thepeathatwasmeThe Pea That Was Me: An Embryo Donation Story

By Kimberly Kluger-Bell
A great way to introduce children conceived through embryo donation to the idea that “some very nice people” (a man and a woman) donated an extra “pea” (or embryo) to help bring them into the loving arms of “mommy and daddy”. May be read to children as young as 3 years old, and has room at the end to fill in your own child’s details.